Summary Endosperm is a key evolutionary innovation associated with the origin of angiosperms (flowering plants). This altruistic seed tissue supports the growth and development of the embryo by mediating the relationship of the mother plant as a nutrient source to the compatriot embryo as a nutrient sink. The endosperm is the primary site of gene imprinting in plants (where expression of an allele depends on which parent it was inherited from) and of parent-specific epigenetic modifications like DNA methylation, which are differentially patterned during male and female gamete development 1,2,3,4 . Knowledge of endosperm gene imprinting and epigenetic patterning is derived from experiments performed in a phylogenetically-wide array of monocot and eudicot plants 5,6 . However, information from angiosperm lineages whose origins predate the monocot-eudicot divergence (such as Nymphaeales, water lilies) is extremely limited. Additionally, Nymphaeales are an intriguing lineage to investigate seed genetic and epigenetic phenomena, as it is characterized by diploid endosperm and a maternal storage tissue (perisperm), both of which are unusual across angiosperm diversity 7,8,9,10,11,12 . Here, we examined DNA methylation and genetic imprinting using two reproductively compatible water lily sister-species, Nymphaea thermarum and N. dimorpha . Our results suggest that endosperm hypomethylation and maternally-expressed imprinted genes are an ancestral condition for endosperm, and that other seed characters like seed provisioning strategies, endosperm ploidy, and paternally-expressed imprinted genes might have evolved as coinciding, opposing strategies in the evolutionary dialogue over parental control of offspring development.