Abstract It has long been thought that coordination of briefly maintained information (working memory) and higher social cognition (mentalizing) rely on mutually exclusive brain mechanisms. However, here we show that slow rhythmical brain activity in the dorsomedial prefrontal cortex controls distributed networks associated with working memory as well as mentalizing during cognitively demanding visual and social tasks. Depending on the effort necessary for cognitive operations, the phase of slow frontal oscillations is used to precisely tune communication with posterior brain areas. For participants having low autistic personality traits, this mechanism is identical across tasks – no matter whether visual or social information is processed. This underpins a unified function of the mentioned oscillatory brain mechanism in working memory and mentalizing. Participants with high autistic personality traits – thus, with difficulty in social cognition – however, have an inability to efficiently tune brain communication depending on cognitive effort in visual information processing. Even more striking, in higher social cognition they fail to implement coordination of distributed brain networks by slow frontal oscillations completely. While these findings suggest a unified function of brain oscillations in cognitive coordination they also explain why individuals with high autistic personality traits can have difficulties with demanding cognitive processing across domains. Significance Statement Our findings revealed an interregional brain coupling mechanism based on rhythmical cortical activity to be responsible for successful social and visual working memory by tuning the fronto-parietal network depending on memory load. We suggest that this coupling mechanism can explain how communication between distant brain areas is effectively controlling cognitive functions, independent of the exact type of information that is processed. Importantly, participants with high autistic personality traits struggle with efficient tuning of fronto-parietal networks. Thus, a deficit in this coupling mechanism seems to be an underlying cause of impairments in social and visual working memory, which is often seen in individuals on the Autism Spectrum. These findings might even generalize to other mental disorders as broad cognitive control deficits and social problems are common in a variety of psychiatric and neurological conditions.