Abstract Little is known about the impact of host immunity on sexual reproduction in fungal pathogens. In particular, it is unclear whether crossing requires both sexual partners to infect living plant tissues. We addressed this issue in a three-year experiment investigating different scenarios of Zymoseptoria tritici crosses on wheat according to the virulence (‘vir’) or avirulence (‘avr’) of the parents against a qualitative resistance gene. Co-inoculations (‘vir × vir’, ‘avr × vir’, ‘avr × avr’) and single inoculations were performed on a cultivar carrying the resistance gene (Cellule) and a susceptible cultivar (Apache), in the greenhouse. We assessed the intensity of asexual multiplication by scoring disease severity, and the intensity of sexual reproduction by counting the ascospores discharged from wheat residues. As expected, disease severity was more intense on Cellule for ‘vir × vir’ co-inoculations than for ‘avr × vir’ co-inoculations, with no disease for ‘avr × avr’. However, all types of co-inoculation yielded sexual offspring, whether or not the parental strains caused plant symptoms. Parenthood was confirmed by genotyping (SSR markers), and the occurrence of crosses between (co-)inoculated and exogenous strains (other strains from the experiment, or from far away) was determined. We found that symptomatic asexual infection was not required for a strain to participate in sexual reproduction, and that avirulent strains could be maintained asymptomatically “on” or “in” leaf tissues of plants carrying the corresponding resistant gene for long enough to reproduce sexually. In two of the three years, the intensity of sexual reproduction did not differ significantly between the three types of co-inoculation in Cellule, suggesting that crosses involving avirulent strains are not anecdotal. We discuss the possible mechanisms explaining the maintenance of avirulence in Z. tritici populations and supporting the potential efficacy of cultivar mixtures for limiting resistance gene breakdown. Highlights Avirulent Zymoseptoria tritici strains can reproduce sexually in wheat plants carrying the corresponding resistant gene. Symptomatic infection of plant tissues is not essential for a strain to reproduce sexually. Avirulent strains can be maintained asymptomatically “on” or “in” leaf tissues of plants carrying the corresponding resistant gene for long enough to reproduce sexually. Crosses of virulent strains with virulent and avirulent strains in a plant host carrying the corresponding resistance gene can produce offspring with similar population sizes. Several possible scenarios for sexual crosses can explain the maintenance of avirulence in Zymoseptoria tritici populations evolving in a wheat canopy, particular in cultivar mixtures.