Using flavor SU(3) symmetry, we perform a model-independent analysis ofcharmless $\bar B_{u,d} (\bar B_s) \to PP, ~PV$ decays. All the relevanttopological diagrams, including the presumably subleading diagrams, such as theQCD- and EW-penguin exchange diagrams and flavor-singlet weak annihilationones, are introduced. Indeed, the QCD-penguin exchange diagram turns out to beimportant in understanding the data for penguin-dominated decay modes. In thiswork we make efforts to bridge the (model-independent but less quantitative)topological diagram or flavor SU(3) approach and the (quantitative but somewhatmodel-dependent) QCD factorization (QCDF) approach in these decays, byexplicitly showing how to translate each flavor SU(3) amplitude into thecorresponding terms in the QCDF framework. After estimating each flavor SU(3)amplitude numerically using QCDF, we discuss various physical consequences,including SU(3) breaking effects and some useful SU(3) relations among decayamplitudes of $\bar B_s \to PV$ and $\bar B_d \to PV$.